A year later what do I remember about this day.
The days leading up to November third had been cool and sunny with lots of wind. When I went to nonee and bumpa’s house the week before you where due all the leaves where still on the trees and looking out over the pond was amazing sea of orange, red and brown. But not the third, the winds had blown all the leaves onto the pond and ground around the pond.
Your dad and I had had a long conversation right before I went to bed about what your name was going to be and I told him I didn’t think your name was supposed to be Topher, but I didn’t know what your name was supposed to be. He stayed up late, like he normally does but this night he was looking at names on the computer. He finally came to bed around 12:30.
I woke up at 1:45 feeling really uncomfortable and thought I had a contraction, so I got up to go to the bathroom and see if they would continue. They did.
I tried to lay down, but it didn’t help so I walked around the living room and told Nonnie and Dad.
Labor lasted only 11 hours and I got to watch Teen Mom and Shawn of the Dead. I ate some crackers, but they didn’t taste very good and I thought I might get sick. You arived after only 15 minutes of pushing, did a summersault coming out and where in my arms within second.
You were beautiful and chubby, you looked like a little football player. You didn’t smell like baby at all. It was so much fun. Then we had mostaccioli.
Over the next few days everyone wanted to come and meet you.
In the week after you were born you developed jaundice, like Xander did. A few very sweet mothers donated milk to me to help suppliment you while my milk was coming in.
Your first two months were a little crazy with parties and events. First your birth day, Dadies birthday, Thanksgiving, Dadies graduation party, Xander’s birthday, Christmas and new year. Through all of the craziness your didn’t get sick one time!
In February you took your plane trip to Florida to visit Capa for a few days.
In March was your baptism, Uncle Sean and Nicole are your godparents and I’m sure they will be able to lead you and be there for you throughout your life. You also got to meat uncle Jim and Aunt Michelle from Colorado and we played at the imagination station.
April was your first meal, a little early but you really liked it. We also visited your cousin A in Lansing and went to small animal day.
In May we moved to our new home in Ann Arbor. That and the unpacking took up the most of our next several months.
In August we went on vacation with our whole family to the upper peninsula for a week and when we returned I started at job. I got to spend your whole first ten months with you and I loved every minute of it.
Xander, mommy and daddy adore you and we are so glad that your here with us. Happy Birthday!